Choose love
Love is a choice. I know some say you can't help who you fall in love with, but you choose who you stay in love with. Love and marriage aren't always "sunshine and roses" (but stop and smell those when it is), sometimes love means staying and making up, compromising and working things out when you dont get along and listening when all you want to do is shake your head and walk away. Love is a choice. Every single day you need to choose to love your spouse. Every single day you need to choose to do things that reflect that love and make your spouse feel loved. Not only in the ways that make you feel loved, but in ways that make them feel loved. Love languages are extremely important. Its easy to feel alone in a crowded room if no one ever shows you love the way your heart desires. Love is being patient and kind when you want to be angry or annoyed. Love is letting go of pride and choosing to hold back the hair of your wife while she's sick, gross, pregnant and ...